Comments on: An affair to remember (and log) http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/ Because the world needs yet another blog Sat, 30 Aug 2008 04:13:24 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: Mellissa http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-99 Mellissa Thu, 05 Apr 2007 03:03:11 +0000 http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-99 Wow. I was doing a google search for "Mellissa had sex with.." to see what funny answers came up. Then I found this. I can not believe everything you've had to endure, and I know nothing about you, but you seem so strong and I pat your back for that. I wish you the best of luck in getting your life in order, and you are in my thoughts. You will get through this. By the sounds of it, you have many supporters to help. That's a wonderful thing to have: friends and family to help you. Best of luck, Jim! -Mellissa Wow. I was doing a google search for “Mellissa had sex with..” to see what funny answers came up. Then I found this.
I can not believe everything you’ve had to endure, and I know nothing about you, but you seem so strong and I pat your back for that.
I wish you the best of luck in getting your life in order, and you are in my thoughts. You will get through this. By the sounds of it, you have many supporters to help. That’s a wonderful thing to have: friends and family to help you.
Best of luck, Jim!
-Mellissa

]]> By: Jessica http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-93 Jessica Sat, 24 Mar 2007 01:13:12 +0000 http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-93 Jim, I'm sorry this happened. But, I reall respect your ability to admit your own faults and not just blame everything on Mellissa - and I *really* respect how you're turning your life around and focussing on your kids. That's awesome. What's not awesome is your cheating wife, who totally sucks and I hope is currently miserable. That's a terrible betrayal. You could have worked together to turn things around, and obviously you were willing - what a shame that she had to fuck it all up by being a sneaky liar. No one deserves to be cheated on. If she was unhappy with you, she should have had some integrity and ended things with you *before* running off with some other guy. How selfish she turned out to be. Jim, I’m sorry this happened. But, I reall respect your ability to admit your own faults and not just blame everything on Mellissa - and I *really* respect how you’re turning your life around and focussing on your kids. That’s awesome. What’s not awesome is your cheating wife, who totally sucks and I hope is currently miserable. That’s a terrible betrayal. You could have worked together to turn things around, and obviously you were willing - what a shame that she had to fuck it all up by being a sneaky liar. No one deserves to be cheated on. If she was unhappy with you, she should have had some integrity and ended things with you *before* running off with some other guy. How selfish she turned out to be.

]]> By: Joe Fulgham http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-98 Joe Fulgham Fri, 23 Mar 2007 19:05:06 +0000 http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-98 The SCA is really just a front for dork sex camp. I'm sure it started honestly enough, but once the girls got all treated like princesses and the nerds who hit each other with fake swords got attention from corset-wearing plus-size girls it was doomed to be just a reason to get together and "bedwarm". So yeah, screw you "chivalrous" SCA people who knew what was going on. The SCA is really just a front for dork sex camp. I’m sure it started honestly enough, but once the girls got all treated like princesses and the nerds who hit each other with fake swords got attention from corset-wearing plus-size girls it was doomed to be just a reason to get together and “bedwarm”.

So yeah, screw you “chivalrous” SCA people who knew what was going on.

]]> By: Jim http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-97 Jim Thu, 22 Mar 2007 20:34:02 +0000 http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-97 You're right. To me "the SCA" is her circle of friends in Lionsdale {unfounded accusation and abuse removed -- please see "SCAred" post from March 25, 2007}. You’re right. To me “the SCA” is her circle of friends in Lionsdale {unfounded accusation and abuse removed — please see “SCAred” post from March 25, 2007}.

]]> By: T.W http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-96 T.W Thu, 22 Mar 2007 20:00:39 +0000 http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-96 Do not paint the SCA with your anger. What ever the disputes, they are with individuals and not the community. SCA are a hobby society not relationship police. The choices and mistakes people make in their own lives and home is their own business. What happened would be no different if it was a church group, political league, student society or any other group of human beings. Do not paint the SCA with your anger. What ever the disputes, they are with individuals and not the community. SCA are a hobby society not relationship police. The choices and mistakes people make in their own lives and home is their own business. What happened would be no different if it was a church group, political league, student society or any other group of human beings.

]]> By: Joe Fulgham http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-95 Joe Fulgham Thu, 22 Mar 2007 17:47:14 +0000 http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-95 It's amazing how one's instincts (in this case, MINE) can be so accurate. From the bits and pieces you'd tell me shortly after you got married, I really started to worry. And now this? I find out that she's as bad as my worst-case worry? Mellissa, I'm sure you're reading this: you're a TERRIBLE PERSON. Get some help you baby-addicted sicko. It’s amazing how one’s instincts (in this case, MINE) can be so accurate. From the bits and pieces you’d tell me shortly after you got married, I really started to worry.

And now this? I find out that she’s as bad as my worst-case worry? Mellissa, I’m sure you’re reading this: you’re a TERRIBLE PERSON. Get some help you baby-addicted sicko.

]]> By: Steve Zillwood http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-94 Steve Zillwood Thu, 22 Mar 2007 09:29:36 +0000 http://www.jimallison.com/2007/03/22/an-affair-to-remember-and-log/#comment-94 And by the kids' uncle. And by the kids’ uncle.

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